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Kelly Brook

Kelly Brook is on holiday in Italy at the moment.  Or maybe she’s working (?) as she’s on the Italian island of Ischia to attend its Global Film And Music Festival.  I have to confess that I’ve not heard of either the Island or it’s festival until Kelly was papped there in her bikini (Ah, maybe that was the point, well done festival organisers, smart move on your part) and as to be expected, these pictures have hit newspaper sites and gossip sites worldwide.  For Exhibit A (the bikini shots), click here, here or here.

I think there’s no doubt about it, the woman has an amazing figure, a gorgeous body, naturally curvaceous and in proportion.  She has the perfect hourglass figure and looks fantastic for it.

It’s kind of unusual these days to see a woman with these kind of curves who is proud and happy with their body.  Apart from Kelly Brook the only other women who come to mind are Christina Hendricks, Jennifer Lopez, and Kim Kardashian.

With regards to Kelly, she does strike me as someone who genuinely likes herself.  From what I’ve read and seen, she seems a happy person who likes and respects her body and is proud of it.  This is a rare trait in a woman or anyone really, to the point where it’s almost considered unacceptable by some.  I’m referring to a few Daily HateMail Daily Mail readers, (I know, I know, I shouldn’t read the Daily Mail), who took offence to the following comment Kelly posted on twitter:

“In Naples! Men are looking at me like I am Gelato!! Are there women in Italy??”

These were some of the responses (all women):

“…. She doesn’t half love herself, does she?!”

“She’s beautiful but very full of herself!”

“hmm her twitter comment sounds a bit big headed…”

In short, they can’t tolerate someone who’s beautiful and likes herself.  To them, this is wrong.

The way I read it, Kelly’s comment is pretty light-hearted.  She’s in Italy, Italian men aren’t known for being shy in showing their appreciation for women, especially those whom they consider beautiful.   I don’t doubt that she did attract a lot of stares; she’s a pretty girl and combine that with an awesome figure, she probably did have more than one hot-blooded Italian male lusting after her.  From her point of view, their reaction is a bit excessive hence her questioning, “Are there women in Italy??”.

I’ve been in similar situation, sadly not because I possess a physique like Kelly Brooke’s, but when I was a teenager on holiday on a Greek Island – the locals not used to seeing people of mixed race, stared at me oddly fascinated.  I understand that they didn’t mean to be rude; they just weren’t particularly discreet.  Whilst flattering, to begin with, it became annoying very quickly, as I went from feeling relatively relaxed to quite self-conscious.  I felt like some kind of weird animal in a zoo.  So from my own personal experience, I can relate.

Overall, the majority of the DM readers comments seem to be complimentary and appreciative of Kelly’s beauty.  It’s only a few that take offence and resent the fact that Kelly (outwardly at least), does not seem to display any signs of insecurity or self-loathing.  I get it.  It’s difficult for those with less than perfect bodies, to see someone who not only is as close to physical perfection as it gets, but who also does not display any false modesty or insecurities and self-loathing – well how dare they?  I mean that’s the least you’d expect right, as some kind of compensation for said person having a near perfect body.

But personally, I don’t see why she shouldn’t love herself.  She’s beautiful, gorgeous – I’ve not ever read any reports of Kelly Brook being a b-tch, she seems a pretty nice person who by and large, is happy with her life.  Or at least that’s the impression I have.  She always seems to be smiling no matter what sadness she may be experiencing (i.e her miscarriage, the loss of her father etc), and I don’t mean in a kind of demented way. I think there’s a lot to be said for someone who doesn’t dwell on self-pity, especially when they’ve had to deal with some tragic situations.

So to all you Kelly haters, if you don’t like her, fair enough that’s your choice, but if you’re going to hate someone, could you at least base it on more than the fact that an individual likes themselves and you don’t?